Divorce is somewhat of a paradox in many situations. Often the parties to a Honolulu, Hawaii, divorce both dread the prospect of ending a marriage and look forward to its conclusion. That is the result of human emotions interfering with something that you know is the...
Divorce
Is it wise to remain in a crumbling marriage for the sake of the children?
You have probably heard this many times. Someone you know says they are staying in a miserable marriage solely because of their kids. The breakup of a child’s parents’ marriage is very traumatic, of course. Having Mom and Dad go their separate ways can be emotionally...
How to tell that your marriage might be in trouble
People don’t get married with the idea that they’ll end up getting a divorce. For some people, the news that their spouse wants a divorce is something that comes as a shock. Many people think that marriages end primarily because of infidelity, but there are many other...
What should you do if your ex badmouths you?
People who are ending a relationship and share children will have to continue to work as a parenting team. This isn’t always easy, especially when there are hard feelings festering. It’s up to you and your ex to make things work for the good of the children. One thing...
Do you see these signs in your marriage?
The day you get married, you think that the union will last forever. While many do, some people realize that the marriage isn’t all they thought it would be. There are many signs that your marriage is ending. If you see some of these signs, you’ll have to decide...
3 ways to reduce conflict during a divorce
The divorce process can be stressful at the best of times. This process can be a hotbed for conflict, especially when it comes to property division, financial decisions and disputes over child custody. As a result, it is worth considering some methods that may help...
5 possible financial effects of divorce
They say hindsight is 20/20, and in matters of divorce, this saying is 100% accurate. If Honolulu residents knew about the possible financial effects of divorce, they could plan and prepare for the worst. Unfortunately, few people have a complete picture of what could...
How can you tell if mediation could work for your divorce?
Divorce may not be an inherently pleasant process, but it does not mean to be a miserable battle either. You and your ex have the power to take control over your divorce and decide what happens and how you handle the process. Litigation or contested divorce is only...
How can parents best help their kids cope with their divorce?
When it comes to their parents, kids expect a happily ever after. Unfortunately, things don't always go as planned. One of the most challenging parts of a divorce is breaking the news to your kids that your family is breaking apart and you and your co-parent won't be...
Financial concerns when getting a gray divorce in Hawaii
More and more people aged 50 or older are choosing to end their marriages instead of remaining together unhappily. According to one article, the American divorce rate for older couples has roughly doubled since the 1990s. The process of getting a late-life, or gray,...
