Divorce is a difficult decision that affects many aspects of a person’s life. One of the most common questions asked by those seeking a divorce is whether they have to justify their reasons for wanting to end their marriage. Hawaii is a no-fault divorce state, meaning...
Divorce
What is the difference between divorce and annulment?
Two ways to end a marriage are a divorce and an annulment. They can both be used in different situations, but it’s important not to confuse the two. There are some stark differences that need to be considered. For one thing, an annulment can only be used on specific...
Assuring children that divorce isn’t their fault
Adults usually know that children did not cause them to get divorced. They know it was something else entirely, perhaps something the child isn’t even aware of. Maybe the family is facing overwhelming financial stress, or maybe one person was unfaithful to the...
What is unique about gray divorces?
Divorce has become common in today's society, but a new trend has emerged in recent years - "gray divorce." Gray divorce refers to the dissolution of marriage among older couples, typically over the age of 50. This phenomenon is unique in many ways, including the...
What happens to joint credit cards during divorce?
It can take quite some time for divorcing spouses to negotiate an agreement regarding the division of their property and financial obligations. Those who can't agree will end up litigating their divorce. While Hawaii state law requires fair or equitable solutions, it...
What’s a no-fault divorce?
If you sue someone for financial compensation after they have caused an injury, you do often have to prove their negligence. For example, maybe you claim another driver caused a car accident. You could use the police report as evidence that they were at fault, showing...
4 tips for paying child support
Child support is key in divorce agreements. The Hawaii Child Support Enforcement Agency uses a formula and worksheet that rely on the income of the parents and the custody agreement to determine the most suitable payment. You need to observe the given order to avoid...
Why would you choose a contested divorce?
There are basically only two ways for a divorce to proceed: It can either be uncontested or contested. However, those phrases may not mean exactly what you think. When a divorce is uncontested, that merely means that you and your spouse are willing to agree to all...
3 tips for communication during a divorce
It is important to communicate with your spouse during your divorce. This encourages peaceful separation and can also prevent delayed processes. However, how you communicate is vital. Conflict in divorce is painful for both parents and kids. Thus, it can be beneficial...
You don’t need your spouse’s cooperation to get divorced
If you have a combative and uncooperative spouse, it’s natural that this relationship can make you want to get a divorce. Maybe you feel like your spouse is always disagreeing with you and turning every little thing into a fight, for instance. This can be stressful,...