It’s common for people to worry about how they’ll communicate with a spouse or ex-spouse during or after a divorce. They may have a history of disputes or be concerned about the other person’s aggression or rude behavior. Unfortunately, there are times when there is...
Divorce
How to prepare your finances for divorce
Divorce can take a tremendous toll on both a person's emotional and financial well-being. Nationally, the average cost of divorce per person in the U.S. is around $15,000, which includes hiring attorneys, court fees and enlisting the help of other experts such as...
Social media mistakes that compromise divorce negotiations
As a couple prepares for their divorce, each spouse will take stock of their social circles. Most people draw on their social support groups in times of stress, including through a challenging divorce. In today’s world, interacting with our friends and family often...
What conditions do you need to meet for a divorce in Hawaii?
Where you live directly impacts your rights and what rules apply when you file for divorce. If you currently live in Hawaii and know that your marriage will likely end in the near future, you may need to learn a little bit more about Hawaii's requirements for someone...
How can you limit the damage divorce does to your kid?
Hawaii parents going through a divorce have to look out for their child before all else. This is difficult when it comes to managing their well-being and mental health. After all, news of a divorce still upsets people even as adults. How well do you think your child...
3 ways to financially prepare for divorce
Disentangling your life from that of your former spouse takes time and patience. It also requires you to take steps to advocate for yourself and prepare for your financial future. Taking certain actions with regard to your finances may help you navigate the divorce...
There are many reasons to consider divorce mediation
As you prepare for your divorce, it’s important to remember that there are steps you can take to reduce tension with the idea of speeding up the process and minimizing bad feelings between you and your ex-spouse. Mediation, which is favored by the courts, is one of...
Are you married to a narcissist?
Most people know narcissists throughout their lives. These people put themselves above others. When it comes to conversation, they will be their own favorite subject. Often, they are manipulators and control others. Marriage can be difficult, but it is glaringly more...
How is alimony determined?
When you and your spouse decide to divorce, one subject that may be contentious is how much alimony you will pay. Hawaii in particular has strict alimony laws, which can be confusing for someone who is unaware of the way courts determine alimony. Career factors There...
How is gray divorce a health risk?
Divorce is one of the most stressful experiences that a person can face. No matter how young you are, it can have effects on your health. As you age, however, these effects may be more prominent. According to U.S. News, for couples aged 50 and above, the rate of...
