Divorce may not be an inherently pleasant process, but it does not mean to be a miserable battle either. You and your ex have the power to take control over your divorce and decide what happens and how you handle the process. Litigation or contested divorce is only...
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How can parents best help their kids cope with their divorce?
When it comes to their parents, kids expect a happily ever after. Unfortunately, things don't always go as planned. One of the most challenging parts of a divorce is breaking the news to your kids that your family is breaking apart and you and your co-parent won't be...
Financial concerns when getting a gray divorce in Hawaii
More and more people aged 50 or older are choosing to end their marriages instead of remaining together unhappily. According to one article, the American divorce rate for older couples has roughly doubled since the 1990s. The process of getting a late-life, or gray,...
Why feeling bad about divorce is normal
You have taken the plunge and filed for divorce. You tell yourself it is for the best. Yet, some days you wake up feeling down about it. Does that mean you made the wrong choice? Divorce will affect your mental and physical health You cannot expect to end a long-term...
Should you prepare to litigate your divorce case?
Once you file for divorce, something that you may wonder is if you should be prepared for your case to go to court. While you likely will have a hearing or two during your divorce, not all cases have to go to family court for litigation. There are times when...
Let go of these 3 myths when a divorce is imminent
Despite all of the information available online and elsewhere, people still believe in untrue myths about divorce. People looking to end a marriage often rely on stories from friends or family to make divorce decisions. While most who offer these so-called tips have...
What does it mean to have a no-fault divorce?
Hawaii is a beautiful place to live, but a divorce can quickly turn that feeling sour. As someone struggling with the end of your marriage now, it’s important that you know that you have support. There is always help for those going through struggles like yours....
Common hot button issues in divorce
Your marriage is coming to an end and both you and your spouse are on board with the idea that the divorce process is in your best interest. But even if you’re on the same page, it doesn’t necessarily mean that things will go off without a hitch. What could go wrong?...
Court-monitored programs could help you communicate respectfully
It’s common for people to worry about how they’ll communicate with a spouse or ex-spouse during or after a divorce. They may have a history of disputes or be concerned about the other person’s aggression or rude behavior. Unfortunately, there are times when there is...
How to prepare your finances for divorce
Divorce can take a tremendous toll on both a person's emotional and financial well-being. Nationally, the average cost of divorce per person in the U.S. is around $15,000, which includes hiring attorneys, court fees and enlisting the help of other experts such as...
