There are basically only two ways for a divorce to proceed: It can either be uncontested or contested. However, those phrases may not mean exactly what you think. When a divorce is uncontested, that merely means that you and your spouse are willing to agree to all...
It is important to communicate with your spouse during your divorce. This encourages peaceful separation and can also prevent delayed processes. However, how you communicate is vital. Conflict in divorce is painful for both parents and kids. Thus, it can be beneficial...
If you have a combative and uncooperative spouse, it’s natural that this relationship can make you want to get a divorce. Maybe you feel like your spouse is always disagreeing with you and turning every little thing into a fight, for instance. This can be stressful,...
Going through a divorce can come with a mix of emotions. While you may be ready to move forward with the next chapter in your life, it is still normal to feel upset about the end of a relationship that you thought would last longer than it did. Divorce also tends to...
A number of people split their time between Hawaii and the mainland, with homes in both places. If you’re one of these people and you are considering filing for divorce, how do you know whether or not you have the option to file here in Hawaii? Under state law, one or...
Finances are often the last thing that couples open up about. You may not truly get a sense of your spouse’s financial circumstances or priorities until after you are married. Money isn’t everything, but it is certainly important. In fact, money is at the center of...
Navigating the emotions of a divorce can get difficult, especially in the beginning when negative feelings are intense, and the future is unknown. However, as hard as it is for adults to maneuver through the new partnership role with an ex, it may be more challenging...
Getting a divorce in Hawai'i is similar to getting one in any other state, but there are state-specific rules and issues that you should know about. Before you file, knowing some of the basics can help you be better prepared and ready to build the best case. In this...
Many people assume that the best thing for children is to have two married parents, so they may say they’re staying together for the kids. They do not want to be married, but they think they should be so the children have more stability. Is this true? Is it always bad...
You and your spouse have taken the decision to pursue a divorce. While you have both agreed that it is best all around, not everyone in the family feels this way. Your in-laws are disappointed, angry and looking for someone to blame. You and your spouse have children...
