Despite all of the information available online and elsewhere, people still believe in untrue myths about divorce. People looking to end a marriage often rely on stories from friends or family to make divorce decisions. While most who offer these so-called tips have...
Honolulu Family Law Blog
Who gets the house in a divorce?
Your spouse files for divorce. You know this is eventually going to mean you have to find a new place to live, but what does that process look like? Who gets to keep the home? First and foremost, you can stay in the house if you legally own it, even after the divorce...
What does it mean to have a no-fault divorce?
Hawaii is a beautiful place to live, but a divorce can quickly turn that feeling sour. As someone struggling with the end of your marriage now, it’s important that you know that you have support. There is always help for those going through struggles like yours....
Common hot button issues in divorce
Your marriage is coming to an end and both you and your spouse are on board with the idea that the divorce process is in your best interest. But even if you’re on the same page, it doesn’t necessarily mean that things will go off without a hitch. What could go wrong?...
A joint account could help you track child support payments and spending
If you’re paying child support, something you may be concerned about is that the money won't be used toward your child's well-being. You may worry that the funds will be spent in ways that you don't approve of or that your co-parent may waste the money that should be...
Should you get a separate bank account before divorce?
You’re considering a divorce. You haven’t told your spouse yet, but it’s pretty obvious to both of you that the relationship is ending. One thing you’ve been thinking about is your financial position. You share a bank account with your spouse. Should you get a...
Lost your job? Don’t ignore your child support obligations
You’ve lost your primary source of income, your finances are in total disarray and you can’t afford your child support payment next month. What can you do? You can’t pay what you don’t have, but that doesn’t mean you can simply ignore the situation and hope you can...
Court-monitored programs could help you communicate respectfully
It’s common for people to worry about how they’ll communicate with a spouse or ex-spouse during or after a divorce. They may have a history of disputes or be concerned about the other person’s aggression or rude behavior. Unfortunately, there are times when there is...
What to do about co-parenting disagreements
Even with a parenting plan in place, there are sure to be times when you don’t see eye to eye with you ex-spouse. When that happens, it’s critical that you consider all your options to ensure that you take the appropriate steps. Here are several things you can do...
Why is co-parenting difficult?
Have you ever met one of those divorced couples who seem to maintain a perfect relationship after their marriage ends? They sit applauding side by side at their child’s school play and even go out to dinner as a foursome with their new partners. For most couples, the...
