Hawaii parents going through a divorce have to look out for their child before all else. This is difficult when it comes to managing their well-being and mental health. After all, news of a divorce still upsets people even as adults. How well do you think your child...
Honolulu Family Law Blog
3 ways to financially prepare for divorce
Disentangling your life from that of your former spouse takes time and patience. It also requires you to take steps to advocate for yourself and prepare for your financial future. Taking certain actions with regard to your finances may help you navigate the divorce...
Reasons a married couple may want to make a contract
What other states may refer to as a postnuptial or antenuptial agreement is a marital contract in Hawaii. According to state law, the couple can make a contract at any time during the marriage and agree to almost anything as long as it does not violate any laws. In a...
There are many reasons to consider divorce mediation
As you prepare for your divorce, it’s important to remember that there are steps you can take to reduce tension with the idea of speeding up the process and minimizing bad feelings between you and your ex-spouse. Mediation, which is favored by the courts, is one of...
Sharing a retirement account in a divorce
If you and your spouse have chosen to end your marriage, you know that you will need to figure out how to separate your comingled lives. Shared debts and assets may end up being split or apportioned to one person only during the divorce settlement negotiations. When...
Are you married to a narcissist?
Most people know narcissists throughout their lives. These people put themselves above others. When it comes to conversation, they will be their own favorite subject. Often, they are manipulators and control others. Marriage can be difficult, but it is glaringly more...
Who may testify in a child custody case?
Because child custody is a hot button topic in many divorces, you may wonder what your case will be like when you go before the court. In particular, you may wonder if the court will involve other people who will tell the court about your abilities as a parent. In...
Travel before, during and after divorce
Hawaii can sometimes feel like a different country altogether than the continental USA. This can be a great advantage — until it becomes a significant liability. One example of this is during divorce. Travel back and forth between the islands is expensive enough. If...
How is alimony determined?
When you and your spouse decide to divorce, one subject that may be contentious is how much alimony you will pay. Hawaii in particular has strict alimony laws, which can be confusing for someone who is unaware of the way courts determine alimony. Career factors There...
Did your spouse diminish marital assets before the divorce?
Hawaii is among the majority of states that apply the equitable distribution standard to splitting your assets in a divorce. You probably already know that you will have to split the debts and assets acquired during your marriage with your ex once you file. For many...
