It’s common for people to worry about how they’ll communicate with a spouse or ex-spouse during or after a divorce. They may have a history of disputes or be concerned about the other person’s aggression or rude behavior. Unfortunately, there are times when there is...
Honolulu Family Law Blog
What to do about co-parenting disagreements
Even with a parenting plan in place, there are sure to be times when you don’t see eye to eye with you ex-spouse. When that happens, it’s critical that you consider all your options to ensure that you take the appropriate steps. Here are several things you can do...
Why is co-parenting difficult?
Have you ever met one of those divorced couples who seem to maintain a perfect relationship after their marriage ends? They sit applauding side by side at their child’s school play and even go out to dinner as a foursome with their new partners. For most couples, the...
Moving islands after your divorce? Relocation can be harder than you think
If there is one thing that is amazing about Hawaii, it’s that there are many beautiful places to live. Whether you live on Oahu or Maui, you can have a beautiful home and be surrounded by activities, tourism and more. When you and your spouse decided to divorce, you...
How to prepare your finances for divorce
Divorce can take a tremendous toll on both a person's emotional and financial well-being. Nationally, the average cost of divorce per person in the U.S. is around $15,000, which includes hiring attorneys, court fees and enlisting the help of other experts such as...
Social media mistakes that compromise divorce negotiations
As a couple prepares for their divorce, each spouse will take stock of their social circles. Most people draw on their social support groups in times of stress, including through a challenging divorce. In today’s world, interacting with our friends and family often...
What conditions do you need to meet for a divorce in Hawaii?
Where you live directly impacts your rights and what rules apply when you file for divorce. If you currently live in Hawaii and know that your marriage will likely end in the near future, you may need to learn a little bit more about Hawaii's requirements for someone...
What are signs of parental alienation?
As a divorced co-parent in Hawaii, cooperation is crucial. If you and your co-parent cannot remain on the same page, then you risk doing harm to your child. But unfortunately, your co-parent may want to stir the pot intentionally. For this reason, you may want to...
How can you limit the damage divorce does to your kid?
Hawaii parents going through a divorce have to look out for their child before all else. This is difficult when it comes to managing their well-being and mental health. After all, news of a divorce still upsets people even as adults. How well do you think your child...
3 ways to financially prepare for divorce
Disentangling your life from that of your former spouse takes time and patience. It also requires you to take steps to advocate for yourself and prepare for your financial future. Taking certain actions with regard to your finances may help you navigate the divorce...
